This is to add some perspective from a male point of view. I was not a big dater leading into my marriage so when I got divorced and explored the world of Internet dating it was an amazing learning experience. I was told by my family to make sure to “stay away from anyone that…

I am embarressed too say I have so many bad boyfriend stories it would take me years to say them all, but one guy definently has to top them all. He actually ended up being my ex husband eventually so guess that proves my stories worth and my idiocy. Our relationship was filled with breakups…

So I was in love with an Israeli man (I am catholic) who also professed his undying love for me. This was the “real” thing. I got pregnant. He didn’t want the baby, telling me it was because the timing was bad or we were too young (late 20’s), I don’t remember… At the end…

“On the perils of travel”I spend way the hell too much time on the internet. I know this. I am a Computer Guy by trade, the sort where you can hear the capital letters when people say it, and it sounds in unflattering moments like some kind of exotic venereal disease. “Yeah, she gave me…

There was the guy who picked me up for our date with his friend in tow (as he didn’t have a driver’s license). It was a convertible, so you can imagine what my hair looked like by the time we got to the party. This was our first date, but the other couple with us…

When I was in my mid-twenties, I fell hard for a guy I worked with. I was married at the time I started working with him. I felt we had a mutual attraction, but never acted upon it. I seperated from my husband, just as he was getting engaged to a girl back in his…

When I was about 16 or 17, a guy I dated suddenly became extremely possessive. I was so young that I was flattered by his attention which we would now called possessiveness or stalking. If he called my house and the line was busy, he would call everybody he could think of that I might…

I dated this guy very shortly last year. He was very affable and outgoing latino ad he had curly hair. I have a thing for curly hair and latin was like that cherry on top of it. I just love it. Its shallow and stupid but what is more stupid is how in this late…

We used to call him Gary during the day, because his beautiful, colorless, eyes were inert and cruel until closing time at the winery. It was then that Greg emerged, his whole affect swelling and softening, and his gorgeous, snaggly teeth showing to the gums. He was incredibly loud, and never breathed through his nose.One…

When we first started dating he’d said he was divorced. I know what some guys’ idea of divorce was (well, I’m thinking of moving out but haven’t done any paperwork) so I checked out his divorce records online. Through court records I learned that his ex had hired a private detective to follow him and…